person: im just throwing my opinion out there
me: *slaps opinion out of the air* not in my house
This shit breaks my heart
This is why ‘we don’t need feminism these days’ is a bigoted and narrow minded comment.
a relationship will not cure your issues, no matter how hard young adult books and films try to push that notion on us. if you have depression or bipolar or anxiety or whatever, getting into a relationship isn’t going to cure that or make it go away. person with illness + relationship = ill person in a relationship. please don’t put all of your focus on finding someone to fix you, focus on fixing yourself the right way.